For the third post in the week, we will discuss Cultural Miscommunication. What seems to be so easy, that actually can cause bad impressions, sometimes problems... As we become a globalized world often, we can see some cross-culture paradigms. Still, we can be so different between our cultures.
Here in
Brazil, some people brag about how we can change for the better some
traditional foreign foods. From the bread, sausage, and mustard from a
traditional American hot dog, here they add so many toppings that an American
couldn't recognize the food as a Hot dog. The same for other foods. This isn't rude
or can't cause a big misunderstanding but like those simple things, there are a
lot of others who really can cause a mess.
My husband
had an American companion once, in his mission. They were in a ward activity
and there was this young woman. Often, she touches his arm as they talked. My
husband's companion was very serious and suddenly warned him that they were
leaving without further notice. Once they were out from the chapel my husband
inquired about the reason for leaving so abruptly the activity. The way that
they did it is considered extremely rude. Then his companion talked about that
young woman. See, we are a warm people, and personal space isn't considered the
same as for Americans. This little miscommunication put them in a problem after
that. They were considered rude and unpolite among those people. Besides this isn’t
a big problem, the members don't want to introduce them to their friends
anymore. And I can tell you why. Why should why introduce rude and unpolite
people to my friends? As a polychronic country, the members don't want to hurt
their friend's feelings. And this is just a short example of how
miscommunication can be a bad thing if isn't solved.
How can we as
teachers can help our students? It's impossible to get acquainted with all those
non-spoken rules about a culture, but as we teach them about culture in general,
we help them to create a growth mindset. They learn that they don't need to be
perfect but rather that they can learn from their mistakes. And we can help
them to understand that culture learning is a lifelong journey. The culture
itself changes every day. We need to update our knowledge according to it.
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